Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

You Brought Joy...

Oh, how you brought joy to their world. The blessings you poured out to so many were amazing to see and we wanted to share some of them with you. In memory of our precious son you filled his stocking, and the hearts of so many this Christmas season...



"Yesterday morning my sons and I spent some time making care bags for those going through treatment at my oncologist's office. They colored cute little Merry Christmas tags and packed the bags while my friend and I tied ribbons. I told my friend all about you and how much your mommy, daddy, and big sister love you and wanted to remember you this year. I can only imagine how heaven must be right now. How precious to know you are whole, perfect and so very loved. When we delivered the bags to the nurse at the chemo room, she had tears in her eyes as she thanked us."

"We selected a tag off the giving tree at our church to purchase a gift for another four year old girl who wanted a dollhouse for Christmas. I explained to our daughter that the true reason for the season is giving to others and sharing our blessings. She went with me to pick out the dollhouse for this child and we took it to our church. It is still a work in progress, but she is slowly learning the value of giving to others. We also did something a little different this year for the kid's gift exchange between cousins on Christmas eve. The money that we normally would spend on gifts we used instead to buy animals for a needy family through Heifer International. It's truly amazing how a donation from us can buy a needy family an animal that can make milk to drink or sell and support their family for years. The kids exchanged books instead that they already owned and thought their cousins would enjoy. Christmas eve was truly a wonderful time spent with family and reflecting back on the year."

"We donated sheets and snow boots to our angel tree. We made and brought Christmas cookies to a neighbor in a difficult time."

"We donated to www.vestergaard-frandsen.com towards the wells being dug for water. The most expensive part of the well digging is the concrete. For $25 for you can donate 2 bags of concrete. It takes many bags to line the well. We are donating $300 this year in Isaac's name. I spoke with my husband about it last night and these children will have clean water to drink from."

"My daughter-age 6- had decided to get rid of some of their books, so I took them to her school, where my secretary collects books for her late daughter's memorial fund at Catholic Charities. Both of my kids (my son is 9) were so touched by the reaction over the donation of only a few books that they decided to go through all the rest of their books so they could donate even more."

"We made the decision together as a family to spend less on one another and instead focus on those in need. We adopted a family through Collinsville Schools and had a blast buying gifts for them."

"My wife and I were at dinner having a date night. While we were eating she noticed a young couple and asked "Can we buy that couple's dinner tonight in honor of Isaac?" So we asked the waitress if she would give their ticket to us, once we got their ticket we wrote: Merry Christmas in honor of Isaac Lee Berry and left it on the table. While we were leaving the restaurant we saw the waitress tell the couple that someone had bought their dinner and they were truly ecstatic."

"A drink was purchased for the Salvation Army bell ringer outside Reasor's one evening."

"We ate at IHOP this month. Service is always slow and not that great. Well we got a very good waitress. She was young and friendly. When we were leaving I told her what we thought of her service. She said we made her day. Our words gave her the encouragement to stick it out at a less than fulfilling job. She said people are always rude and impossible to please and she was ready to quit. We left her a big tip and a light heart. Those simple words that took a few minutes to share quite possibly changed her life....in Isaac's name. As usual he is changing lives from his little perch in Jesus' lap. We will continue to try and change lives in Isaac's name because he changed our lives forever."

"My act of kindness was for my elderly neighbor that lives next door to me. She's lived in her house since I've lived here but I rarely see her. I really don't know much about her, other than she is alone. She does have children that occasionally come by a handful of times each year. She probably leaves the house once a month or so. I put together a Christmas gift basket and card for her. The card left my contact information and I asked her to please call me with any needs. It took us three days before she would come to the door but this morning after my daughter tried to open the door to let herself in she finally answered. We were able to talk for awhile and I think she really enjoyed the basket of Christmas goodies. I appreciate the idea and I think it's a great way to inspire and show us how easy it can be to lend a hand, or let someone know they are loved/cared for!"

"Our daughter and our son picked out four Angel Tree children this year. It was a delight to see them excited about giving to those that are less fortunate. Also, instead of giving gifts at our school Christmas party this year we gave to those families in our school that needed our help. Our daughter helped another get up after falling and clean up their spill with napkins."

"We took a small basket filled with goodies to the assisted living center down the street from our home. My sons and I walked in and found about 8 individuals sitting around the table. One gentleman said, "look maybe that's Santa coming now" referring to us. I just replied, actually we have brought you a few goodies. We chatted for a bit and then another individual asked me if we were with a church. I told them I brought the treats as an act of kindness in remembrance of our friends son Isaac who passed away this year. I was very touched by the sweet responses and appreciation of our kindness. It was especially good for our son to see and he wants to go back and take more stuff."

"Our Kindergartner- I cleaned off my lunch plate, my silverware and my trash today. Then I told my mom, 'This is my random act of Kindness, If we do things before someone asks us, we are loving them'."

"I realized that your note and his memory have pushed me to do much more for my mother this season and make memories with her. Thank you for the wonderful reminder of what Christ's birthday represents."

"Through a outreach program I heard about a family who was being evicted from their home in 2 hours. They were a husband, wife and 3 children. I was able to talk to someone I helped before that was an assistant manager at Town House Suites. She agreed to allow them to stay there for 3 days in a very nice room. The outreach paid for two nights and our family paid for the third. I also took several bags of groceries and had them let me put it all in their room. He called me the next day to say how appreciative his family was for getting them the room and the groceries. It felt good to be able to help yet another family."

"We sent several items this year to the "Gospel for Asia" program. We added an extra blanket in our order from Isaac Lee."

"We sponsored a little boy from Uganda."

"We appreciate good service and like to commend those who give it. We have been calling companies as we receive good service and telling them we wanted to thank that employee for a job well done. Hopefully, the message was passed down to them."

"The random act of kindness done in the name of Isaac was the donation of our mini-van to a family desperately in need. I heard about this family through a co-worker. The father of this family of five is a salesman. Two weeks ago he was crossing 3 lanes of traffic and was hit and totaled their car. They didn't have the means to buy another car. Besides getting to work, the family was struggling to find rides for the teenage children to get to school and run normal errands. God laid it on my heart to give them our van and so we delivered it to them on Wednesday 12/21. As it turn out, both husband and wife struggle with the performance trap and could not believe it when they were told that this van was given to them by a complete stranger. It is my prayer that they see that the donation of this van reminds them that God has not forgotten them and is with them in their pain. He is cheering for them. I gave our van in memory of Isaac. May the spirit of giving continue as we share life together. Just as God is with this family, so has he been with your family. It is my prayer that the stories of provision and God's grace and provision through this hard time linger in your heart and minds until you are reunited with Isaac in Heaven. I am humbled and honored to share life with you guys and look forward to meeting Isaac in Heaven!"

"A good friend of ours had to leave her home and move into a nursing home. We visit her weekly, this week we are taking her a Christmas centerpiece in Isaac's name."

"We purchased a gift card at Chic-fil-a for someone in the military."

"Our family served at a women's shelter, we pampered the mom's doing manicures, activities with the children, cooked meals, and helped with Christmas gifts."

"The janitor at our children's school has five children and works 2 jobs. Our daughter was told each child would get only one gift for Christmas. She came home and looked at our tree, and then she and her brother grabbed their own money and went shopping for the family."

Some of our own "Random Acts of Kindness" with Anastacia. It was so much fun to watch her eyes light up and see the excitement she had over blessing others.


Hiding money in the food at the grocery store. We prayed the families that needed it most would find it. We were back a couple of days later and she checked to make sure it was gone:)


Hiding money in the toy aisle at Walmart.




A little love for our faithful postal worker.


On Christmas morning we made such a special memory as a family together, reading all of the letters and notes from you. Our eyes brimmed with tears as we read on and on. You were a blessing to so many, thank you!


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